Designing a Therapeutic Office for Neurodivergent Adults

Annabelle Denmark MA LPCC • August 27, 2024

Crafting a calming and engaging therapeutic space

Designing a therapeutic space for adults with ADHD, Autism, a mix of both, and Highly Sensitive Persons (HSP) requires thoughtful consideration of sensory inputs and the overall atmosphere. As someone who has spent a year perfecting a 130 sq. ft. office, using both client feedback and personal experience as an ADHD-er and HSP, I’ve gathered insights that can help create a calming and supportive environment for all clients, particularly those who are neurodivergent. The principles I follow in my office can be universally applied, though the reverse isn’t always true.

Light: The Cornerstone of Comfort

Lighting is one of the most critical elements in a therapeutic space. Soft lighting is essential, as harsh or overly bright lights can be overstimulating. I found that the right balance is achieved through “soft white” LED bulbs, specifically GE Relax LED 60W bulbs. These bulbs emit a comforting light that isn’t too warm or cold, helping to create a soothing environment. The color temperature of the light is crucial; inconsistent lighting can be confusing and tiring, especially for someone with sensory sensitivities.

I’ve also made sure that all my lampshades are of similar color—cream or beige—to maintain consistent lighting throughout the room. While experimenting, I found that colored shades, like red or purple, can be distracting and disruptive to the atmosphere. Even a green table lamp, while visually appealing, can detract from the calming environment.

In my small office, I’ve strategically placed two small lamps, one medium lamp, and one large floor lamp, spaced about 5 to 10 feet apart. This setup ensures there are no shadowy areas while avoiding glaring light. This is particularly important when working with clients who have experienced trauma or those who require neurodiverse-affirming care.

Natural Light: A Vital Ingredient

If possible, natural light is a must. The decision to choose an office with a window was intentional, as natural light not only improves mood but also helps regulate circadian rhythms, which can be particularly beneficial for neurodivergent clients.

Furniture: Comfort and Containment

Furniture plays a significant role in creating a space that feels safe and welcoming. I’ve observed that clients prefer contained seating options—plush chairs that envelop them—rather than large, open sofas that can feel overwhelming. This sense of containment can be especially comforting for those with ADHD, who may feel more secure in a defined space.

Simplicity: A Calming Influence

Simplicity in decoration is key. While it’s important not to overwhelm the space with knick-knacks, it’s equally important to include a few tactile elements like fidget toys, which can be incredibly grounding. I opt for toys that are easy to clean and maintain, ensuring that they remain hygienic for all clients. I did add a busy looking rug, both for ease of maintenance (it is washable and the patterns hide wear and tear) and for helping my clients grounds by looking at circular patterns. The rug also warms up the space and connects the two chairs.

Sound: Silence as a Sanctuary

A quiet office is crucial for preventing sensory overload. Minimizing outside noise allows clients to focus on their thoughts and feelings without distraction. If complete silence isn’t possible, consider using a white noise machine or soft background music to mask disruptive sounds.

Additional Comforts: Weighted Blankets and Safety

Small touches, like providing a weighted blanket, a weighted jacket (see blog on picking a hoodie or jacket) a weighted plush toy, can make a significant difference in a client’s comfort level. These items can offer a sense of security and grounding, especially during moments of anxiety or stress. I also ensure that all corners of the room are visible, creating a sense of safety and openness.




Creating a therapeutic space that caters to neurodivergent individuals requires attention to detail and a deep understanding of their unique needs. By focusing on lighting, furniture, simplicity, and sound, we can design environments that support and nurture our clients, allowing them to feel safe and understood.


November 22, 2025
I’ve pulled together a holiday wishlist full of things that actually help — not the “must-have productivity bullet journal” hype, but real tools that me and people in my little ADHD-community lean on. Some of these are sensory, some are calming, some are just practical for a brain that forgets where it put its keys… again. This list is not sponsored — these are things that have brought relief or joy to real neurodivergent folks, myself included. My ADHD Gift Guide: What to Ask For (or Treat Yourself To) 1. Books & Workbooks The Anti-Planner If you’ve tried all the planners and they just end up collecting dust: this is for you. It’s not a dated planner — think of it more like an activity workbook for procrastinators. There are games, prompts, and low-pressure strategies to help you actually start stuff, even when motivation is MIA. It’s a favorite because it meets you where you are. Dani Donovan / Anti-Planner+1 Where to buy: You can order The Anti-Planner directly from the author’s site. Dani Donovan / Anti-Planner (Note: be careful of knockoffs.) Reddit+1 2. Fidgets & Sensory Tools Little Ouchie Grippie — This is one of our top picks in the office. It’s spiky, but in a grounding way — great for emotional regulation, calming down, or just giving your hands something to do when your brain is all over the place. Square Magic Dice — This is the fidget I can’t stop playing with. There’s a little hidden gem inside: a spinning-top spring surprise. It’s simultaneously weirdly magic and deeply satisfying. 3. Nervous System + Bedtime Support Pulsetto Vagus‑Nerve Device — Okay, full disclosure: I’m skeptical about how effective it is. BUT — I use it every night. The soundtrack, the ritual, the feel — it’s comforting. Pulsetto uses gentle vagus-nerve stimulation to help you relax, reset, and (supposedly) sleep better. 4. Grounding + Anxiety Soothers Bearaby Organic Cotton Weighted Blanket — Weighted blankets are a classic, and this one is dreamy. Soft knit cotton that’s breathable, but still gives that comforting hug. Perfect for calming down racing thoughts or overactive nerves. 5. Practical Lifesavers for the Forgetful Brain Apple AirTag — This is basically my “where are my keys? where’s my phone?” insurance. I’ve got like ten of these floating around, and on stressful days, “Find My” is my lifeline. 📝 A Few Other Beloved Ideas Beyond the main items, here are some bonus favorites from clients: Mini sensory stones or palm pebbles (textured, smooth, grounding) Visual timers (e.g., time-block timers) like the time timer A sunrise / gentle alarm clock (for less jarring wakeups) Noise-canceling headphones if the world feels too loud A self-care workbook (unplanner style) to track moods, energy, and needs 💬 Why These Items, Specifically I didn’t choose these just because they’re “trendy ADHD gifts.” Instead: These are things that people in my therapy space or IRL community actually use . They support emotional regulation , sensory needs , executive functioning , or daily brain stuff — not just productivity for the sake of “being busy.” Many are tools , not “fixes.” They’re not magic cures, but they help make life a little more manageable. ⚠️ Disclaimer This is just a personal list, curated from me + my clients. I’m not a product reviewer or a scientist — I’m a therapist + ADHD person. I cannot guarantee that these will “work” for you. Use your own judgment for anything with health or sensory implications. None of this is sponsored or affiliate-linked (unless you find links later, that’s your call — but not mine).
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By Annabelle Denmark LPC May 1, 2025
This post is for therapists in training and clients who would like to know a bit more about how I show up in session.
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March 16, 2025
Being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) means experiencing the world on a deeper level—physically, emotionally, and mentally. Dr. Elaine Aron, in The Highly Sensitive Person, describes HSPs as having a finely tuned nervous system that makes them more reactive to their surroundings. This sensitivity can be both a strength and a challenge, especially when it comes to illness, medication, and personal care. Psychotherapist Robin Shapiro expands on this idea, emphasizing the impact of environmental sensitivities and the importance of trauma-informed therapy.